SELF-CONFIDENCE IS A PERSONAL JOURNEY, WE ALL GONNE TO TAKE DIFFERENT PATH, BUT ULTIMATELY WE ALL IN THE SAME ROAD. WE ARE DOING THIS TOGETHER.
THE WORD SELF CONFIDENCE DERIVED FROM LATIN WORD
WITH FAITH IN SOMEONE OR YOURSELF.
Definition of self-confidence to be, the ability or the belief, to believe in yourself to accomplish any task. No matter the odds, no matter the difficulties no matter adversities. The belief that you can accomplish it, self – confidence.
But I ‘ll use the word skill because I believe that it can be trained.
There are no right or wrong ways to build self-confidence because right and wrong are subjective. Everyone is on a different path, the tips that I ‘ll TEL is universal. It’s gone help jumps start your journey.
Tip – 1
Confidence is like a mental muscle.
Like a muscle everyone born with it, but not everyone flexes it.If you want your muscle to grow stronger, got exercise.
Consciously think positive thoughts, especially during movements when you’re feeling down. And take a deep breath, and remind yourself that life is too short, and you got to make best of it.
Listen to music that lifts your mood, good beats and sound are proven to help people in a positive way. Music and sounds to know to help the growth of plants, that’s saying a lot. You want to have healthy habits to maintaining this mental muscles. And you also don’t want to overdo it, everything in moderation, balance is key. It’s good to remind yourself, time to time how worthy and how awesome you are. But you also want a room to grow and improve. We can all change and evolve for better.
Find your qualities
Instead of focusing on the negative, which no can be hard., focus on the positive. It doesn’t have to be a physical thing, maybe you’re amazing singer or you’re brilliant pianist or the best painter, no one is perfect at everything. We are all made to be perfectly imperfect.
Just like a crystal, it’s not perfectly cut like a flower diamond, its beautiful in its own unique way. There won’t be another crystal like this one. it’s just like you, it has many many facets, you will discover more of them, as a time goes by. If you don’t think you have a quality, just ask yourself, a simple question, what I am good at, of course, everyone is good at something. If you don’t know, what it is. Take this opportunity to find it.like, sign up for cooking classes, painting classes, learn how to sign, play some games. Pick up a passion and nurture it. Because this help to bring self-confidence. It gives you something that you strives for.
Have a buddy system.
Journey to build a self-confidence is not alone in the road, essentially everyone is on the same journey. Find someone you can trust and share your insecurity with, if you feel like no one is there to talk to, just go online, search for best things that make you happy. Or have some pets or animals like dogs and cats, try to tell them, about what your feel, of course, they can’t talk but they are good listeners, And the best part is without being judge. we have to stop obsessing over the can’t, you need to focus on what can. What can I do to improve myself? As long as you physically and mentally not harming the person you love, I see no wrong path towards happiness.
I am the captain of my ship
And the master of my fate.
Pass your wisdom and gift on to others.
Teaching, caring, monitoring other is the greatest gift you can give to others, and yourself. Not only other person will feel better but you will feel better too. Loving other will inspire you to love yourself.
People will forget everything you said, but they always remember how you made them feel.
You know what, this journey will not going to be easy, they’re gone be times when you want to give up, you feel like you lost, you can’t continue to further down, on this journey. And you have to remind yourself, that if you want to build a self-confidence, you have to stay positive.
Be like a proton and stay positive.
Positive mind opens more doors, don’t lean on to the single path, take as many as you can till you reach your destination. Once you find your confidence enjoy it.when you feeling down bring that thought into your mind. Remind yourself this is the attitude you own and control.
You are all perfectly imperfect. At the end of the day, your unique attitude makes you special.
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